Why can't I be like her? Why Can't I be the popular one? Why Can't I be slimmer? Why am I born like that? Why am I fat? Why am I ugly? Why can't I be flawless? Why am I disliked? Why am I short? Why am I tall? Why am I big in size? Why do I have small eyes? Why don't I have sexy lips?

These questions do go through my mind most of the time but then today, I read an article a friend, Pete. He sent it to me and then I realised how much we all have to appreciate that we are born this way. We are born with perfect sights, hearing and movement. Rather than those who are blind or partial blind, deaf or partial deaf and those who are having difficulties moving around. I may still say "Why am I so fat? Why am I like that?" But at least now, I know that I should be thankful that I am born out perfectly fine like most of you who are reading this post. I always wanted a body which can fit UK 6 but then I realised it wouldn't be impossible but it would be dangerous. Why dangerous? Because I used this way to slim down : No breakfast. Lunch. Training. No dinner. No breakfast. No lunch. No dinner. That is why. It's unhealthy. Anyway getting back to the main point, every girl has their own insecurity and it is totally normal. Yes it is normal. Boys do too. If you are like me, wanting to be slimmer and other stuffs, don't over do it. And slimming doesn't take a day. It takes 2-3 weeks. But what is really important is that you need to show your inner beauty to the world that you are not scared of being short, fat, small, big, unpopular, etc. That is the most gorgeous part of every woman, girl and lady. Take Adele for an example. She tells the world that she does not need to slim down to impress anyone because she just needs her voice to attract fans. With just that sentence, shows her inner beauty to me. Well, you must be thinking "Then, what about others? What about Christina Aguilera, Taylor Swift, Pixie, Cher Lloyd, etc? They are still so sexy and slim!" That's because they still believe in the judgmental society and it isn't wrong. But think about it, there are so many girls getting diseases and risking their lives just because people judge them. Is it fair? No it isn't. If there are a quarter of Adele in the world, the world would almost be perfect. And to those douche out there, even though a girl might be fat, never call her fat. She might joke along with you but when she get home, she might start skipping meals all day long until people stop joking about her.
Now, remember. We are all humans, we are not perfect, so are they who judge us.